

{"id":16636,"date":"2022-01-24T19:02:33","date_gmt":"2022-01-24T19:02:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/?p=16636"},"modified":"2023-04-20T21:55:22","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T21:55:22","slug":"how-to-use-the-expression-my-dears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/how-to-use-the-expression-my-dears\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Use the Expression &#8220;My dears&#8221; \u2014 Examples &#038; Context"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>English has lots of ways to address people.<\/p>\n<p>Some are common. Others are so rare they seem ungrammatical.<\/p>\n<p>However, just like with <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/a-unique-vs-an-unique\/\">&ldquo;a unique&rdquo; vs &ldquo;an unique&rdquo;<\/a><\/strong>, these differences are often down to regional variation.<\/p>\n<p>Let&rsquo;s take a look at &ldquo;my dears,&rdquo; an expression that has a mixed reputation.<br>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>What is the meaning of &ldquo;my dears&rdquo;?<\/h2>\n<p><strong>The expression &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; is a form of salutation or address used to talk to multiple people the speaker is close to. This expression is identical to &ldquo;my dear&rdquo; except that it is plural.<\/strong><br>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Using &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; to address people<\/h2>\n<p>The expression &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; has a very simple meaning. This short phrase (see our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/clauses-vs-phrases\/\">clauses vs phrases<\/a>) is simply a way to tell a group of people that you care about them.<\/p>\n<p>You can think of the expression as being identical to telling someone they are dear to you.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, most of the time you can&rsquo;t just go up to somebody and say, &ldquo;My dears!&rdquo; That would be confusing and also a little strange.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/comma-before-or-after-instead\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instead<\/a><\/strong>, &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; is a form of address, similar to &ldquo;friend&rdquo; or &ldquo;dude&rdquo; or even &ldquo;mom.&rdquo;<br>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>The difference between &ldquo;my dear&rdquo; and &ldquo;my dears&rdquo;<\/h2>\n<p>One common question is whether there&rsquo;s any difference between &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; and &ldquo;my dear.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Fortunately, this question is easy to answer. The only difference is that &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; is plural and &ldquo;my dear&rdquo; is singular.<\/p>\n<p>That is, if you&rsquo;re talking to one person, you should use &ldquo;my dear,&rdquo; but if you&rsquo;re talking to more than one person, you should use &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; instead.<\/p>\n<p>Some people also ask if &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; is valid English. It certainly is, although it may sound a little affected in American English.<br>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>How to use &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; in a sentence<\/h2>\n<p>The phrase &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; can be placed anywhere in a sentence where you would pause to address somebody.<\/p>\n<p>If that seems confusing, mentally replace &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; with a common name in your head and say the sentence. You can then simply swap out the name you chose for &ldquo;my dears.&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>Grammatically speaking, you will need to place a comma after &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; if it appears at the front of the sentence.<\/p>\n<p>That&rsquo;s because this phrase serves as an introductory phrase in those cases, and introductory phrases need to be separated from the rest of the sentence by a comma.<\/p>\n<p>If you&rsquo;re inserting &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; halfway through a sentence, you&rsquo;ll need to set it off completely by commas.<\/p>\n<p>These commas serve to show readers that the phrase is nonessential information.<\/p>\n<p>Incidentally, this is the same explanation for where you place the commas in the phrase <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/most-if-not-all-punctuation-commas\/\">most, if not all<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; should usually be preceded by a comma when placed at the end of a sentence.<\/p>\n<p>This may not always be the case, however. For best results, closely examine the grammar of the rest of the sentence to determine whether a comma is needed.<\/p>\n<h3>Example Sentences<\/h3>\n<div class=\"content-box-grey\">&ldquo;Well, my dears, how are you?&rdquo;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"content-box-grey\">&ldquo;My dears! I was just coming to see how you are.&rdquo;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"content-box-grey\">&ldquo;How are you, my dears?&rdquo;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<br>\nAll three of these examples show someone using &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; to greet a group of people. Note that the second does use the expression in its own sentence.<\/p>\n<p>Although that would be strange by itself, in this case it is clear from the next sentence what the speaker is saying, while the exclamation mark serves to adds emphasis.<br>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>My dears as a salutation in an email<\/h2>\n<p>Much like a phrase such as <a href=\"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/thank-you-for-your-interest\/\"><strong>thank you for your interest<\/strong><\/a> can serve as a signature line, the expression &ldquo;my dear&rdquo; or &ldquo;my dears&rdquo; can be used as a formal salutation when writing emails.<\/p>\n<p>Although this is fine in some dialects, such as Indian English, readers only familiar with American English may think it is ungrammatical.<\/p>\n<p>If you&rsquo;re emailing someone who is used to American English, it&rsquo;s best to use &ldquo;Dear John, Bill, and Suzie,&rdquo; as a salutation instead. Obviously, you should swap out the names for the correct names first!<\/p>\n<p>If you&rsquo;re writing to people you don&rsquo;t know by name, check out our tips on <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/letter-of-recommndation-etiquette\/\">letter of recommendation etiquette<\/a><\/strong> for other suggestions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>English has lots of ways to address people. Some are common. Others are so rare they seem ungrammatical. However, just like with &ldquo;a unique&rdquo; vs &ldquo;an unique&rdquo;, these differences are often down to regional variation. Let&rsquo;s take a look at &ldquo;my dears,&rdquo; an expression that has a mixed reputation. &nbsp; What is the meaning of &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":16639,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"disable-in-feed":false,"article-schema-type":"","disable-critical-css":false,"_convertkit_action_broadcast_export":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[672,35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16636","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-business-english","category-english"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16636","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16636"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16636\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25358,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16636\/revisions\/25358"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16639"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16636"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16636"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16636"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}