{"id":19342,"date":"2022-08-23T08:54:11","date_gmt":"2022-08-23T08:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/?p=19342"},"modified":"2022-12-16T16:13:08","modified_gmt":"2022-12-16T16:13:08","slug":"how-to-reply-to-i-have-a-crush-on-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/how-to-reply-to-i-have-a-crush-on-you\/","title":{"rendered":"12 Great Ways to Reply to an “I have a crush on you” Text"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Getting a text that says, “I have a crush on you<\/a><\/strong>,” can mean lots of different things depending on the relationship you have with the person sending it.<\/p>\n

It’s natural to think that this would come from someone who wants to start dating you, but this could also be sent to a friend as a joke, a significant other to just remind them how you much you care, or even to a spouse to show that they still like you after years and years of marriage.<\/p>\n

Another thing to consider is the time it takes you to respond.<\/p>\n

You don’t want respond too early, but it’s worse to respond too late.<\/p>\n

Too long of a time waiting to respond could stress the other person out, so think what you want to say and respond in a reasonable amount of time.<\/p>\n

You also want to consider your relationship with this person; is it someone you like?<\/p>\n

Someone you don’t like?<\/p>\n

Spouse?<\/p>\n

Cater your response to the type of relationship you have with them, and if the situation calls for it, it can be a very funny exchange for the both of you.<\/p>\n

Here are some different ways to respond to “I have a crush on you,” depending on your relationship:<\/p>\n

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12 ways to respond to an “I have a crush on you” text<\/h1>\n
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  1. No way! I have a crush on you, too!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  2. I didn’t know you felt that way! I like you, too!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  3. You’re not going to believe this, but I was going to text you the same thing!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  4. Oh, I didn’t realize. I’m actually already in a relationship with someone.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  5. Okay. I think it’s best if we just remain friends.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  6. I see. I really value our friendship and I would like things to stay just as they are. Thank you for being my friend!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  7. I’d prefer to keep things strictly professional.<\/strong><\/li>\n
  8. Well, I should hope so; we’ve been married for years!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  9. Sorry, new phone. Who is this? Is this Jeremy? Stephanie? Robert? lol, j\/k<\/strong><\/li>\n
  10. Well, it’s about time you said something! We could have been dating for years! Haha!<\/strong><\/li>\n
  11. Cool, I do, too! When do you think we should tell the kids?<\/strong><\/li>\n
  12. Uh-oh. Better make sure you parents don’t find out!<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

     <\/p>\n

    How to respond to “I have a crush on you” from someone you like<\/h1>\n

    Obviously, if you get this sort of text from someone you like, you’re going to be excited, because you both like each other, and now one of you knows.<\/p>\n

    Responding to this text could start a very deep and special relationship, and you can also make things fun and interesting with a witty reply.<\/p>\n

    Here are some responses you can use for your crushee:<\/p>\n

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    1. No way! I have a crush on you, too!<\/h3>\n

    This one’s simple and gets right to the point.<\/p>\n

    It lets them know you also like them and gets rid of any potential awkwardness.<\/p>\n

    After they receive this, they will probably respond by text or call and you guys can text\/talk about planning your first date.<\/p>\n

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    2. I didn’t know you felt that way! I like you, too!<\/h3>\n

    This response is a little different because some people may not be as upfront about who they like, so you might legitimately have been unaware of their crush on you.<\/p>\n

    This could potentially help them in realizing they should be more open if the case calls for it.<\/p>\n

    It’s not always necessary to be so open, but it’s good to know when and where the situation calls for it so you can adjust your interactions accordingly.<\/p>\n

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    3. You’re not going to believe this, but I was going to text you the same thing!<\/h3>\n

    This positive response will make them beam with glee.<\/p>\n

    Even if it’s not completely true, it still works if you were thinking of texting them at some point soon.<\/p>\n

    It’s not like you’d have to have everything written out, but if it was your intention to text them or otherwise let them know you do indeed have a crush on them, this can help break the ice by showing that you both had the courage to speak up about your feelings.<\/p>\n

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    How to respond to “I have a crush on you” from someone you don’t like:<\/h1>\n

    This situation requires a bit more tact.<\/p>\n

    You don’t want to embarrass them but you also want to make it clear that you don’t feel the same way.<\/p>\n

    Approach a response to this with caution, as the wrong kind of response might make them upset.<\/p>\n

    You’ll want to let them down gently, and here are some responses you can use:<\/p>\n

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    4. Oh, I didn’t realize. I’m actually already in a relationship with someone.<\/h3>\n

    This is an easy out. It doesn’t really tell them that you don’t like them, but it does tell them that you’re unavailable.<\/p>\n

    There is a small chance that this could backfire, but use it if you’re confident that they’ll accept the answer.<\/p>\n

    It’s slightly risky as they might start asking questions, and if you’re not actually in a relationship, it may be problematic.<\/p>\n

    Use this if you’re confident they won’t dig too deep into the response.<\/p>\n

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    5. Okay. I think it’s best if we just remain friends.<\/h3>\n

    This is short and to the point, and makes your intentions clear.<\/p>\n

    While you are fond of their friendship, you’d like things to stay platonic between the two of you.<\/p>\n

    If they’re a true friend, they will accept this answer without hesitation.<\/p>\n

    This could also be a good way to see if they really are a true friend, because some “friends” might not take this too well.<\/p>\n

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    6. I see. I really value our friendship and I would like things to stay just as they are. Thank you for being my friend!<\/h3>\n

    This is useful if you really do care about their friendship but don’t want any romantic connection with them.<\/p>\n

    Some people may call this the dreaded friend-zone, but there’s nothing wrong with still being friends as long as everyone is aware and okay with the status quo.<\/p>\n

    A well-maintained friendship can be important, even if there is no romance involved.<\/p>\n

     <\/p>\n

    7. I’d prefer to keep things strictly professional.<\/h3>\n

    This one you could use if the text comes from a work colleague or a client or customer of yours.<\/p>\n

    If you’re not interested in this person, make it clear and absolute that you don’t want any kind of relationship outside of business.<\/p>\n

     <\/p>\n

    How to respond to “I have a crush on you” from your significant other:<\/h1>\n

    In this situation, it’s quite obvious that you two are in a relationship, but there’s nothing wrong with casually reaffirming that with a cute text every now and then.<\/p>\n

    Whether it be your boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, or other partner, consider using some of these responses to put a smile on their face.<\/p>\n

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    8. Well, I should hope so; we’ve been married for years!<\/h3>\n

    This a cute little response that pokes fun at the fact that, of course you have a crush on each other!<\/p>\n

    This can keep things fun and interesting with a cute back-and-forth text regarding the things you like about each other, and maybe some fun stories of when you first met and started your relationship.<\/p>\n

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    9. Sorry, new phone. Who is this? Is this Jeremy? Stephanie? Robert? lol, j\/k<\/h3>\n

    You’ll want to punctuate this with their name so they know you know who they are.<\/p>\n

    This kind of reply won’t work on everyone, so make sure you know their sense of humor before you use this.<\/p>\n

    The “new phone, who’s this?” gag is great to use because it’s quick and funny and can easily make the other person laugh out loud.<\/p>\n

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    10. Well, it’s about time you said something! We could have been dating for years! Haha!<\/h3>\n

    This is a very funny response that is only funnier the longer you’ve been together.<\/p>\n

    A decades-long relationship is nothing to scoff at, and keeping things fun with little texts like this can be a very good sign of a healthy, loving relationship.<\/p>\n

    Replace “dating” with “married” if the case applies, or you could even using something like “lifelong soulmates.”<\/p>\n

     <\/p>\n

    11. Cool, I do, too! When do you think we should tell the kids?<\/h3>\n

    If you have children with this person, this response is sure to get a rousing laugh out of them<\/p>\n

    Forwarding the chain to said kids, as long as they’re old enough to get the humor, can also be a fun family laugh.<\/p>\n

     <\/p>\n

    12. Uh-oh. Better make sure you parents don’t find out!<\/h3>\n

    Naturally, you’ll want to avoid this response if there was ever any tension between you and their parents.<\/p>\n

    But as long as everything was copasetic, feel free to poke fun at the fact, and realize that not all relationships are approved of by the parents.<\/p>\n

    This could also be used if their parents were initially resistant to the idea of your relationship, but warmed up over time.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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