{"id":8010,"date":"2020-09-11T20:34:19","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T20:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/?p=8010"},"modified":"2023-03-27T17:51:17","modified_gmt":"2023-03-27T17:51:17","slug":"how-to-say-calm-down-in-japanese","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linguaholic.com\/linguablog\/how-to-say-calm-down-in-japanese\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Say \u201cCalm Down\u201d in Japanese"},"content":{"rendered":"

Japan has a reputation for extreme politeness, but people there still get angry.<\/p>\n

In this post, we’ll give you the right words to defuse the situation.<\/p>\n

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How to say “calm down” in Japanese<\/h2>\n

In Japanese, you can use the compound verb 落ち着く (おちつく) to tell someone to calm down. <\/strong><\/p>\n

If someone is really panicking, you might shout 「落ち着け！」while the more soft-spoken and reserved individual might opt for 「おちついてください。」<\/strong><\/p>\n

This word can also be used to talk about other things calming down, like the rush of your job or the pedestrian traffic at your favorite shrine during festival season.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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A bit on 落ち着く and compound verbs<\/h2>\n

落ち着く is a compound<\/a><\/strong> verb, meaning it’s actually two separate verbs stuck together to create a more nuanced word.<\/p>\n

Compound verbs are formed by taking the verb stem of a verb and adding another verb on the end.<\/p>\n

Technically, you get the stem form of a verb differently depending on whether you are dealing with a る verb or an う verb.<\/p>\n

If you’re not familiar with this terminology, る verbs are all verbs that end in る. Shocking, right? う verbs are a little more complex, but essentially any verb that doesn’t<\/em> end in る is an う verb.<\/p>\n

That said, the easiest way to figure out how to get the verb stem is to conjugate your word to ます form and then cut off the ます.<\/p>\n

So 書く (to write) becomes 書きます and the stem is 書き, 飲む (to drink) becomes 飲みます and the stem is 飲み, and so on.<\/p>\n

Once you have the stem of your first verb, you simply add the second and then treat the entire thing as a single verb for purposes of conjugation and grammar.<\/p>\n

There are a few more complexities to compound verbs, but<\/a><\/strong> to be honest the word “verb” is starting to look like a made-up word at this point, so let’s move on.<\/p>\n

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The parts of 落ち着く<\/h2>\n

When learning a compound verb, it’s useful to know the individual words that make it up.<\/p>\n

In this case, we have the words 落ちる (to fall) and 着く (to arrive at, to reach).<\/p>\n

Taken together, this means the Japanese word for “calm down” means something like “fall and arrive.” It’s important to realize that this shouldn’t be taken literally.<\/p>\n

Instead, think of it as a vivid metaphor<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Because hot air rises and people have a hot temper, they need to “cool” that heat by lowering the temperature.<\/p>\n

Imagine your anger boiling around your head, and as you calm down it slowly drops lower and lower until it reaches a point of calm.<\/p>\n

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Calming people down with 落ち着いて<\/h2>\n

The best way to use this verb is with the て form, 落ち着いて.<\/p>\n

Although it’s technically a command form, this form is polite and non-confrontational, both important if you’re facing someone who’s already angry.<\/p>\n

In situations where you really need to be polite, you can add ください to the end.<\/p>\n

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Examples<\/h3>\n

「これ昨日買ったけどもう壊れたよ！どうするつもり？」
\n「今交換しますから落ち着いてください。」<\/p>\n

“I bought this yesterday but it’s already broken. What are you going to do about it?”
\n“I’ll exchange it now, so calm down, please.”<\/p>\n

Although this is technically polite, it’s worth noting that in a business<\/a> setting <\/a><\/strong>you would probably need to use much more formal language and avoid suggesting that the customer is at fault.<\/p>\n

For instance, 「申し訳ございません。今交換しますから少々待ちごらんなさい。」 or “I’m very sorry about that. I’ll exchange it now, so please wait a short moment.”<\/p>\n

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「おちつけ！」 When calm is imperative<\/h2>\n

If calm is absolutely urgent and you don’t have time to mess around, you can try the shorter 落ち着け.<\/p>\n

This is the imperative form and it has a brash, masculine sound, although it can be used by anyone.<\/p>\n

It’s definitely not polite, though, so you’re better off not using it unless the situation is extreme.<\/p>\n

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Examples<\/h3>\n

「いや！死にたくない！放せ！」
\n[落ち着け！気をつかないと危ないぞ。」<\/p>\n

“No! I don’t want to die! Let me go!”
\n“Calm down! If we’re not careful it’ll be dangerous.”<\/p>\n

「落ち着け！そんなにうるさくとゾンビが聞いて来るぞ！」<\/p>\n

“Calm down! If you’re that loud the zombies will hear you and come after us!”<\/p>\n

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落ち着く in other contexts<\/h2>\n

You can also use 落ち着く to talk about things “calming down” in a more metaphorical sense, like work. In English<\/a><\/strong>, we might translate these uses as “let up.”<\/p>\n

「仕事がやっと落ち着いた。」<\/p>\n

“Work finally calmed down.”<\/p>\n

「交通量が落ち着かない間に休みました。」<\/p>\n

“I took a breather until the traffic let up.”<\/p>\n

In these contexts, the verb isn’t a command so you should just conjugate it like any other verb.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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