My biggest fear and difficulty, is learning and remembering all of the Japanese characters, I have trouble even just remembering the basic ones at times.
You have to learn the cultural context in which you are learning the language, for example, even speaking your native tongue, 50 years ago, people wouldn't be able to understand you, or would be very confused because the context was different.
I'm with you on this point too. Also, its better for translating to your native tongue rather than a foreign language, since you know what the translated word means
For Japanese, I think you should learn the basic characters first so that you can read them, don't worry about more complex characters until later in time.