rgaz83 Posted October 5, 2013 Report Share Posted October 5, 2013 I will be really good about studying and practicing for a week or two, then I will get distracted and not study again for a whole month. This doesn't help with fluency at all, obviously, and makes the next round of attempted learning to be extremely boring as I try to figure out what I've forgotten and what I've retained.So how have you/do you stay focused enough to actually learn anything? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evapfromm Posted October 5, 2013 Report Share Posted October 5, 2013 The main thing would have to be motivation, whether it is necessary to learn the language because of your surroundings, or a must because it will advance your career. The people I meet who want to learn a language "just for fun" or just take it as an extra-credit course in High School/College, generally never become fluent. Of course, there are always exceptions. I would find one certain thing to motivate you to keep at it. That way, it won't feel as much like a job to learn another language. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitkat0124 Posted October 5, 2013 Report Share Posted October 5, 2013 I been asking myself the same question. I'm studying german with my cousin, but she moved to another country recently and from then on I 'm having a hard to to focus. I lost my drive. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rgaz83 Posted October 5, 2013 Author Report Share Posted October 5, 2013 I have a lot of motivation to learn another language, in that there are better paying jobs if I can speak Spanish. There is also the 'fun' factor, of course, in that I think it would just be plain fun to be able to communicate in something besides English. I just can't seem to remember to study every day, even when I schedule it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LauraM Posted October 5, 2013 Report Share Posted October 5, 2013 I agree; motivation is extremely important. I think learning a language should be approached as any other ambition. If you have a specific goal and a deadline, that's even better. If you're about to visit or relocate to a country where the language is spoken, that's ideal as it's a very specific goal with a very specific deadline. If that's not the case, you can always set some goals for yourself. Perhaps there's a movie or a play you can strive to be able to comprehend without subtitles. Or you might want to be able to converse with native speakers locally or on Skype. Or you want to read some literature in that language.You can then target your study towards those goals. Spend time each day; schedule the time. Make the time to study. Remember your goals and your motivation at times when it's difficult. I went through this kind of process when I was learning Spanish. I wanted to be able to take literature courses in college, and so that was my motivation the summer between graduating from high school and attending college. I did a lot of studying that summer! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MyDigitalpoint Posted October 6, 2013 Report Share Posted October 6, 2013 Besides motivation, I need also solitude and silence.Many people love to study (or work) while playing music, but this doesn't work for me.Silence is a must to stay focused and get myself into my room studying at closed doors is my way to go with this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miya Posted October 6, 2013 Report Share Posted October 6, 2013 I'm also someone who gets distracted really easily. Most of the time I am distracted by the internet :nerd: So whenever I have something I really really need to get done, I make a list for myself and then I unplug the internet (or turn off my computer) and just sit through until I complete all or most of my tasks. If I need to learn a grammar structure or memorize vocabulary, I make sure I have those DOWN before I allow myself back on the net. I feel that I work more efficiently when I have a "goal" to reach (to my computer back on).But of course, you also have to maintain interest in the subject if you want to do a good job. So basically, turn off all your distractions and set a goal for yourself. Working towards that goal will (hopefully) help you stay focus long enough to get some information in your head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JessiFox Posted October 6, 2013 Report Share Posted October 6, 2013 Motivation is key, but so is consistency. The more you do it and find different ways to incorporate it daily, the easier it becomes. That's been my experience, anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rand paul Posted October 6, 2013 Report Share Posted October 6, 2013 Exercise really helps me concentrate.Its good for your health too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rgaz83 Posted October 7, 2013 Author Report Share Posted October 7, 2013 Exercise really helps me concentrate.Its good for your health too. Exercise just distracts me. It would probably help if I had a stationary bike or something where I wasn't moving around. Less distracting! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rosa Posted May 30, 2014 Report Share Posted May 30, 2014 It is not difficult to stay focused if you have the need to learn a language or you have strong motivators in your life. Otherwise, it can be a challenge. One suggestion would be to set a schedule and stick to it comes what may and even if you miss a day just get right back to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoodoowytch Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 I have so much going on that it's easy for me to get distracted right now, but for me focus isn't too awfully hard. My hubby says I get scary when I get focused and am as single minded as a buzz saw. Block out sound. (Easy for me... I'm a deafie.) Turn off all phones, TVs and shut yourself into a room if you have to. Set aside 1/2 to 1 hour everyday to study and STICK TO IT. Hope this helps. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peninha Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 It's really a matter of motivation. What are you learning for, what is your goal? Keep that in mind and keep a track of your progress, seeing how we progress is really the best motivator there is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karean Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 Distractions really come in many forms especially when you have to focus on a task. To counteract that, I heard that when you set up a ritual as well as a specific time of day to do your studying, you train your brain to focus faster on your learning and keep that attention longer. Personally, I do a simple routine after watching TV after supper. I bathe. That's about it. I take a bath and then go to my study corner and start learning French. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baburra Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 I think the best motivation is the realistic goal you have and to keep yourself reminded of it. I myself am studying Japanese and hopefully in the future, French as well, because I would like to live in both countries for a significant amount of time and would rather already know a good amount of the language by the time I get there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lasonax Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 It does happen to me too, that i don't study for several days or so... But that's mostly due to not having time, rather than lacking motivation/willpower/focus.I suggest setting up a schedule, to learn X amounts of words or somethign per day. Set a VERY LOW number, that you are guaranteed that you will make every day even if you have only 15 minutes each day. By doing this, you feel like "ah it will just take a few minutes and then I'm done with it". And if you happen to feel very motivated/focused/have a lot of time one day: you can just double that amount.That is how I do with japanese atleast. Instead of learnign everything at once, I am now studying ONLY kanji so that I can put all my focus on that. I'm trying to learn atleast 5 per day, althoguh some days I have to spend entirely on repeating what i have already learned (because I forgot some of the ones I already learned). If I have enough time and all, I will double this amount, so I will learn ten one day. I rarely learn much more than that, but it has happened that I have learnt up to 15 or 20 kanji on one day, but I usually had to spend a day or so extra on repeating these, because a lot of them I forgot.Setting too low goals is much better than setting unachievable high goals. Set high goals for your long term (unspecified time?), but short/easy goals for short term. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wander_n_wonder Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 I think it's really important to commit to a particular habit, before making a decision to start learning a foreign language. If you don't do it consistently, you won't really end up learning, especially when you don't get to practice the language all the time. It will help if you will set easy targets first, just for you to get into the habit without much trouble. For example, you can allocate only 15 minutes each day to learn. It's not that much and so the likelihood htat you will get lazy is low. Keep your targets easy and just increase it as you get used to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jfab Posted May 31, 2014 Report Share Posted May 31, 2014 I have ADD and it's hard to really focus for the most part. I use binaural beats whenever I want to focus. I do to absorb the language clearly in my head. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FosterTXT Posted June 4, 2014 Report Share Posted June 4, 2014 One thing that helps me stay focused is classical music. I always have some classical music playing on YouTube whenever I am online trying to learn some Spanish. It helps me stat calm and relaxed so I can stay focused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forextraspecialstuff Posted June 5, 2014 Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 In addition to being motivated to learn the language I think it's important to set aside and schedule yourself for learning and studying. I schedule a minimum of 30 minutes a day, 6 days a week to study. If I don't make it part of my routine I'm incredibly committed for the first month or so and then become more lax about it. This then slows down any progress because I have to relearn the basics and the learning becomes choppy instead of at a steady pace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Poki Posted June 5, 2014 Report Share Posted June 5, 2014 This really requires extra effort for me. Having a quiet environment helps a lot. When I study I usually go to the library because there are less distractions. When things get hot - like if I am nearing a deadline - it is when I become supernatural. I go into overdrive and the urgency of the task at hand is the only thing that keeps me focused. In learning/studying a new language, I can only say that a genuine interest it the only thing that can keep you focused. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Firelily99 Posted June 28, 2014 Report Share Posted June 28, 2014 When I am motivated in anything I can easily stay focused on what it is that I am trying to do. With learning a language it will improve the quality of life for me because my employability will improve as will my salary. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diprod Posted June 28, 2014 Report Share Posted June 28, 2014 I use binaural beats these days and I'm telling you that they are super effective for focus. And it will help you absorb the languages you want to learn. Listen to one for like an hour and see the results. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trellum Posted June 29, 2014 Report Share Posted June 29, 2014 I've a lot trouble trying to stay focus, and I've had it since I was a kinder garden student. Yup, that means that the conventional teaching methods don't work well for me, and that's exactly why I could never learn English using books alone. I had to immerse myself in the language and practice it as much as possible without fearing or not caring whether I made a mistake or not. I think the real key to staying focused is motivation, sadly I lack that right now. I also lack the time to practice the language. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheCleric12 Posted June 29, 2014 Report Share Posted June 29, 2014 For me, my method in focussing is just to study deeply for about 3 hours, taking a break, then switching to another area of study. It helps me to rejuvenate myself and keeps things fresh. I think that helps me get motivated as well. Also, I listen to music when I study. I think I read a study somewhere that slow paced music is best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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